#1. Correct, the hoster asked for the team from his opponent in normal case and set the match in the menu
#2 and 3
Well. Here they are... Someone told me long time ago. I can't remember who it was

After doing this maximize the window and it's done 
U can save this settings by doing this (if u don't know it) :
Go on your Amiga SWOS folder and click Configurations. There is a Kaillera-file. Right click and settings (or attributes? Properties?)
Then dismark the first hook. And from now on your settings are saved.
Greetz